People that are master at sexual attraction all have one particular thing in common, whether it is women or men, and it is not just confidence – they know how to utilize their divine feminine energy to get what they want. This is key right there, because feminine energy means to allow; it is soft, creative, nurturing, expressive and free-flowing. Think about it, when you allow something to happen you are not using force or manipulation to get something. Instead you are non-attached and you simply let energy flow in rather than trying to do something or make something work, and when you know how to essentially seduce something, you can attract it. They simply understand the art of seduction. That is the secret but powerful art that these people comprehend and master. 

The secret of sexual attraction or the secret behind having magnetic and attractive energy really is a game of energy.  If you understand how energy works, then applying this knowledge should be no problem for you or perhaps not even necessary. If you already are consciously well-aware, then you probably do not need all the information that is given in this article but I still recommend you read it. I see this article as a good reminder of how attraction works in the material world and how we can use energy and the Law Of Attraction to become more mesmerizing and attract people. This article is mainly for those who are interested and seek to understand how to manipulate energy in their favor in order to become more sexually attractive, or really just increase their charm and overall attractiveness. The knowledge I provide in this article is beneficial not only when it comes to dating, but also if you want to simply feel and come across more confidently and impress others with a more captivating attitude. 

If you desire to understand how this game works, then you need to understand how energy works as I have already explained. It simply works like this: Whatever you focus on you will attract, and whatever you do not give your attention will dissipate. That is it. But, there is a big “but” here. People who are new to manifestation do not always completely understand this information. They tend to think that they are focusing on what they want, but actually they are doing the exact opposite. Let me put it this way: let’s say that you are a man who is interested in a woman. After two dates you find yourself to be completely infatuated by her and you cannot stop thinking about her. Your wish is to attract this woman to be your girlfriend. What you should not do is to bombard her with a dozen of texts. I think it makes sense why for most people, but this just shows desperation and neediness in a physical sense. But it goes the same way energy wise, because people can feel what you feel. If you simply pull your energy back and focus more on yourself rather than on this other person, you shift your energy and therefore become more attractive. People like people who invest in themselves and value their own time and efforts. Even when it appears to be not so, when someone seemingly “cries for attention” they still ultimately would prefer someone who is invested in themselves rather than being a doormat. That goes to say that we will always be interested and attracted toward people who are independent and seem sure of  themselves and éven if we are not but just give off that impression, that is going to radiate and attract people toward us. 

I just mentioned how important it is to pull your energy back in order to become a people magnet, but what exactly does that mean? What it means is that instead of placing so much focus and attention on other people or someone else, you draw the energy back toward yourself by being in your own frame. Now what the heck does that mean? It means that you stop projecting out unto other people your fears, standards and insecurities but instead act and see yourself as the main character. The interesting and funny thing is that people will only always reflect back to us our perception of them, and also that which we have about ourselves. Meaning that if we feel we need to do something in order to please them or get their attention, we will attract a version of them that is going to reflect that reality back to us. That is a version who in fact we dislike but attract only because of our own state of mind. If we have a low self-image we might also attract a version of them that will mirror back to us our own insecurities. This is why it becomes crucial to understand that any outcome of any situation primarily solely depends on our own perception. So start changing the energy dynamics and start seeing yourself as being the price and main character, rather than giving away your power and necessity for validation to someone else. What will happen now is that your whole energy body starts to shift, while subconsciously you are sending out a signal that says  “I am magnetic”, leaving people no choice but to automatically respond and accept it as truth.