15/07/2024

 

The Big Prices You Pay for Being Lazy

 

If you think there's no inherent price to pay for being lazy, you are very wrong! Almost everything in life has a literal price as we know, and so does even our daily actions over time add up and predict our future. The future is always yet to be determined and can never be completely forecasted, however one thing is for certain: every small or big decision we make accumulates and becomes part of our personality, ultimately existing in the grand scheme as part of our own individual map of reality. So if you still think that having a lazy attitude towards life isn't much of a big deal, I'd suggest you think again. Every action and reaction ever made and done by you is stored within the subconscious mind, as this mind consistently without fail, tracks everything you say, do ánd think about. Your subconscious mind is so smart yet stupid, that it takes everything it observes literal; it functions like a biological supercomputer and unless consciously targeted and reprogrammed, it will continue to perform its job the way it has been coded by its server (you as consciousness); that means that if through repetitive behavioural patterns, you show signs of lacking discipline, consistency, motivation and hard work, then that is what the subconscious will registrate and automatically produces more of.

In other words, you can't become someone else or the person you want to be, unless you change from the inside out. It's a fallacy or false promise to believe that good things just appear out of nowhere or that great things happen to good-hearted people; it can be of course but this is never guaranteed. The only real assurance, is in the fact that there can only truly be a positive change in one's life, when the person themselves has changed; it's the only way true and lasting change can and will ever occur. When you change your ways, the world starts making ways for you to become and do better, but it's only when a factual shift has happened within the subconscious mind.

 

Price Nr. 1: unattractiveness

The price you pay for this one can be described in one word: "ouch". If this isn't reason enoug to stop being a lazy **** (you can fill in the blanks yourself), I personally don't know what will. As people, we tend to like to keep things friendly between us and others in order to get along well and not make things awkward, and as a result, we often don't tell people to their face what we actually think of them and their life choices. But the truth is that when we encounter someone who isn't as successful or hasn't much going for them, we easily associate them with being lazy, a "scrub" or loser, and this quickly makes us perceive them as being less attractive, which causes us to distance ourselves from them (especially if we ourselves lean more towards being successful). It's simple human psychology, because even though we are told not to put labels on people or to prejudice others, we instinctively do it within seconds of getting to know someone. Knowing this may help to increase motivation, to spark drive and passion and also productivity towards your goals and dreams; however it's safe to know that people will always have some sort of bias about you, whether you are doing well for yourself or not, and thus you must feel the urge to improve for yourself, and not others. 

Price Nr. 2: emotional dissatisfaction in job/career + low income = mundane (boring) life

The habit of being lazy almost always leads to dissatisfaction and settling in career or job choices, with low income ánd living a dull life, and vice versa; because why would you do anything exciting with your life, if you don't see the purpose in doing it? The only reason you would have a habit of laziness after all, is if you don't see the benefits in exhibiting the personality traits that are the exact opposite of that. This sadly comes with a great price, and that is that you miss out on following your passion. It only requires one steady shift in consciousness for you to realize that not acting lazy means doing what you're passionate about, in each given moment, and the paradox in that, is that those small sparks of passion eventually actually lead to much bigger things that are representative of your passion, because everything in the universe is synchronistically aligned. Your passion can include many different things and doesn't have to necessarily be a hobby or something big; it can be something as small as watering your plants, taking your dog out for a walk, watching a documentary etc.

The truth of the matter is simple, and it's that you become lazy because you are bored with your life and are doing things that you don't want to do, but don't realize that all it takes to turn this around, is starting small and just doing what seems most enjoyable in each moment. Emotional fulfillment is therefore found within and whatever you're passionate about is always able to support you in all the ways it needs to be done, if you continue to follow your passion without insistance on the outcome, as Bashar (channeled by Darryl Anka) often mentions during his channeling state. This is important to understand because the price you pay for something always comes áfter the input or the work you've done (or haven't done), but you've got to do your part and that is doing what you're passionate about until you've completed it all the way until the end in every moment, while letting go of the need to know hów it will serve you, in the best way possible.

Price Nr. 3: regretting life choices

The third price you pay for lazy behaviour, is regretting your life choices. This mostly occurs after long(er) periods of unproductivity and feeling like you've wasted your time, big time. There generally comes a point for most people, where they realize that perhaps some of the choices they've made in the past weren't so great and might even have caused some significant losses; whether that is materially, emotionally or  spiritually speaking ór all three of them altogether, and this is where their conscious starts to kick in. Now all of the sudden, they feel depressed, anxious, sad, angry with themselves and/or at the world and sometimes even feel like giving up completely. The moment this happens tends to be a pivotal instance, where either the individual realizes what needs to be done and turns their life around for the better and may even do a total 180, or throws in the towel because they feel utterly hopeless about their circumstances. Coming to a point where you finally recognize the consequences of your actions is not an easy pill to swallow for most people in many occasions; this is why this sudden and quick realisation can hit someone really hard, as if they start to lose touch with themselves and reality and begin to question their life and the purpose they have in it. If you find yourself in this particular situation or know someone who does, then be patient and aware that it's not easy to come to terms with either feeling or realizing that you have squandered precious time and energy, that you can't ever get back. That's why it's essential to develop patience and understanding for those who find themselves in such situations. 

Price Nr. 4: insecurity/low self-esteem

A lazy attitude towards life creates a sense of inferiority within oneself, whether lazy people will admit that to be true or not. There is a reason why people who are lazy develop bad habits; one major aspect being that they have low self-esteem and thus feel incapable of being successful in whatever they want to do, and therefore often don't even start what it is they're most passionate about. Instead of then working on these insecurities in order to overcome their self-imposed limitations, many among such people keep breeding their lack of confidence by perpetuating their bad habits. In doing so, they stay at a low self-confidence level and continue to be discontented with where they are in life. This can only be overcome if the person themselves truly desires to change their life and wants to conduct the necessary responsibilities to become the man or woman they want to be. As discussed earlier, there can be no real change without a clear difference in one's state of mind. It's the belief that changing oneself is hard, that reinforces the idea that it indeed is difficult, while that couldn't be further from the truth. Self-doubt or feelings of insecurity can easily be overcome by working on one's character and increasing overall productivity through filling up one's schedule with important activities, whatever that means for each individual personally.

Price Nr. 5: attracting wrong people

Don't be surprised to find out that you're attracting all kinds of wrong or bad people into your life, if you're habitually a lazy person. This shouldn't be a surprise, because that's what you're energetically aligned with when you're sending off that energy into the universe, that you care very little about your own life. Being lazy is essentially equal to being careless about something, so when you feel that way about something or someone, that energy is going to be projected back to you in the form of physical experiences. This is how you're going to attract people into your life who also don't care much about themselves and their future goals, and who may be doing all sorts of things that have no real purpose: like drinking, doing drugs or partying all night and day every day. This unfortunately will keep happening, unless you change your mindset and attitude towards yourself and your own life.  The people in our lives are merely a subconscious reflection of a part within ourselves, because we are all one. So if you wish to attract better people, you must first become better yourself and embody the character traits of a different person. The changes we seek so dearly are always found inside of us and it's from there, when the desired changes have been made, that more desirable outcomes can be produced for what the future holds.

Price Nr. 6: poor self-care

If you truly are a lazy person, you're most likely not going to prioritize good self-care such as personal hygiene, eating healthy foods, working out and even adopting a positive mindset. It's impossible, because these habits are merely an effect of those who have a sense of direction, rules, authority, discipline and regulation, within their control. If you lack these personality traits, it means that you lack self-control and that you are at the mercy of giving away your power to outside conditions who have control over you. It furthermore signifies that you have little to no self-respect and that you should re-evaluate your own worth. Ask yourself in all honesty whether or not you really value yourself and if the answer is "no", why that is so. Answer this question in all fairness and again, if the answer is negative, it just means that you need to work on recognising all the reasons why you are valuable. The question is not whether you are worthy, because you most definitely are; you are worthy because you are alive, otherwise you wouldn't exist and non-existence doesn't exist, by definition. You are literally a God particle, because the one is all and all is one.

The problem with many people, is that they fail to see not only their true nature but also the many wonderful things that they bring to the table, because they give more attention to what they're doing "wrong". The thing with doing something wrong, is not that you're necessarily doing something wrong; it's just that you're labeling it that way. When you can truly see and understand that everything is neutral and has no built-in meaning but that we ourselves are supposed to give life meaning, everything changes. So now attempt to recognize and expand on those great qualities that you already possess and what makes you unique and each day, just focus on bettering the negative ones with only 1%; you'll be astonished to find out what a difference it makes and how fast it will boost the way you look at yourself and ultimately eliminates the features that aren't conducive, as to who you really want to be.